Where to begin with?hmm.. you require filters to be applied during processing of an Image, filters are required during chemistry experiments, censor board filters films for appropriate content for audiences, a filter is used in air conditioner to purity air, recording studios uses filters to enhance a vocalists voice -so basically a filter is necessary for each and everything to transform it into a desirable form. Do we use these filters in practice for ourselves? should we use them to help us express ourselves better, by using apt words, decrease the chances of misunderstandings?
Let's take for example, during a viva test, we should use filters for answering the questions, but what do we do instead? we try to twist, mold, beat around the bush for the question whose answer we aren't aware about. On the other hand, while talking to someone special we sometimes speak out something that wasn't meant to be spoken , it can be due to various reasons, but giving reasons isn't the right thing to do, instead apologizing and accepting the mistake, realizing, not repeating it again is what should be done.
"Words Once Spoken Cannot Be Taken Back".
"Tongue can be your Greatest Weapon or Worst Enemy".
"Positive words spoken with intent and conviction can touch the HEART of a person".
"A few Kind words can make someone's Day"
All the above actions or phrases needs, one to control what is spoken. We often come across people who say- "After drinking, I m able to speak my mind (sometimes)!", and I m pretty sure that since you may have experienced this, you must also know how much they are guilty the next day. So the choice of words you make do matters a lot. Speaking personally, recently I used some words(non-swear) during a conversation with someone, which caused a big confusion, in short I put my conversation and friendship/relationship with that friend in jeopardy.
Filter's are not only used while speaking, filters can be used while prioritizing friendship, studies as per you don't study the whole book properly for exams, you filter out important content. Or the water purifier, also uses gravel, sand etc. filters to remove the impurities.
If someone tells you that you haven't made yourself clear, make sure you change or update your filter, because what you say or do, can make or break you! And it does matter to change your filter because how much ever you have the carefree attitude, if what you say doesn't make sense then you are wasting your energy!
Let's take for example, during a viva test, we should use filters for answering the questions, but what do we do instead? we try to twist, mold, beat around the bush for the question whose answer we aren't aware about. On the other hand, while talking to someone special we sometimes speak out something that wasn't meant to be spoken , it can be due to various reasons, but giving reasons isn't the right thing to do, instead apologizing and accepting the mistake, realizing, not repeating it again is what should be done.
"Words Once Spoken Cannot Be Taken Back".
"Tongue can be your Greatest Weapon or Worst Enemy".
"Positive words spoken with intent and conviction can touch the HEART of a person".
"A few Kind words can make someone's Day"
All the above actions or phrases needs, one to control what is spoken. We often come across people who say- "After drinking, I m able to speak my mind (sometimes)!", and I m pretty sure that since you may have experienced this, you must also know how much they are guilty the next day. So the choice of words you make do matters a lot. Speaking personally, recently I used some words(non-swear) during a conversation with someone, which caused a big confusion, in short I put my conversation and friendship/relationship with that friend in jeopardy.
Filter's are not only used while speaking, filters can be used while prioritizing friendship, studies as per you don't study the whole book properly for exams, you filter out important content. Or the water purifier, also uses gravel, sand etc. filters to remove the impurities.
If someone tells you that you haven't made yourself clear, make sure you change or update your filter, because what you say or do, can make or break you! And it does matter to change your filter because how much ever you have the carefree attitude, if what you say doesn't make sense then you are wasting your energy!
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